I am trying to be optimistic but to be perfectly honest, the outcome doesn’t look to good with Miles. Getting help for him seems impossible. I am not sure if we just haven’t looked in the right place or if there just isn’t anything that is going to help. He has so many issues that even addressing one of them could take a lifetime, all by itself.
Dealing with Residential Treatment Centers can be a nightmare. Last week the RTC where Miles is lost his nebulizer medication and it took them 2 days to get a new prescription for him. This week he tells me the new tennis shoes I took to him in May are missing along with his shower gel, dental floss, toothbrush etc. Try to find a size 13 in mens tennis shoes with no laces that look like something a 13-year-old would feel good about wearing and don’t cost a fortune and you will understand why I am so mad about the shoes! I can never get in touch with the therapist when I need to. Email is the best form of communication I have learned about this whole RTC experience. I haven’t even been called all month for a Family Therapy session that is supposed to happen every week. I am currently waiting on a response from the therapist about all of the above.
I am pretty sure that sending Miles 6 hours away from home for help because there isn’t a closer RTC doesn’t help the situation either. If he were closer we could at least visit more often.
When a child gets sick with cancer, it appears there is a whole network of assistance to help the families navigate care for the child. Why doesn’t that happen when a child is diagnosed with mental illness. I actually had a doctor in an acute care facility tell me “Good luck with that.” referring to my sons diagnosis and getting help for him!!! Really??