I guess when dealing with any 13 year-old there are always going to be those moments that leave you scratching your head. I have had numerous conversations with Miles about the medication that he has to take and why it is so important and how if he starts to feel differently while taking the meds that he needs to communicate with us. In the past couple of years I know I have compared him needing to take medicine to someone who might have high blood pressure or other illnesses a minimum of a hundred times or so.
The other night we are talking on the phone and he asks what I have planned for the rest of the evening. I tell him I am going to a support group to talk to other parents that have kids or loved ones that…then he interrupts ” are like me???”. I go on to tell him , ” Well, they aren’t exactly like you. Their kids are all older, in their 20’s but they are all sick in one way or another.” He then blurts out, “Hey!!!!! Wait a minute!!!! I”M SICK?????” Oh man, all I could think of was ” Well damn!! I never meant to open a can of worms here!!”
I kind of laughed about it to myself later but it’s really sad. I am pretty sure that he feels he is in residential treatment because he is a bad kid, not a kid that has an illness that makes him do things that put himself and others in danger. Ugh!!!